In the spring, a lush green leaves of fruit trees. In the fall of fruit trees bear fruit, golden yellow fruit looks very tempting. A starling bird flew into the tree, shouting loudly praised the tree.

"Trees are fertile, you look beautiful with the fruit of this tree." Tree after hearing praise told starlings, "Friend, stay my place!."

Then, a canary bird flew into the tree, facing the tree while singing, "This tree is very green, very fragrant fruit, very nice." Tree said to the Canaries, "If you want to eat fruit, please take it!"

A woodpecker flew into the trees, he is pecking here and there in the body of the tree fruit, tree fruit makes a lot of pain, screaming in pain shouting for woodpeckers, woodpecker said, "I see in your body there is a caterpillar, I would like to pecked out, if not, then you will get sick. '

The tree angrily said, "Nonsense, you peck me, intentionally wanted to kill me, get out of here!" Woodpecker finally flew away.

Not long after, the tree sick, the leaves turn yellow then fall. Finally also withered branches, can not bear anymore. Starlings flying left, canaries also come sing again. At this time the woodpecker flew again here, even though the trees screaming in pain she does not care, pecked on until the entire worm body terpatuk tree up.

Some time later, this tree grows back, green leaves begin to appear, then bear fruit again. At this time, the tree with compassion said, "The singing and praising you is not necessarily a friend, but who are willing to show your flaws, also can help you, here's a true friend."

Reflection:

Do you often get compliments from your colleagues? does compliment it makes you feel flattered that you are out of balance. Finally, make decisions based on likes and dislikes? If someone were praised and appreciated, you consider a friend but instead the person you think is correct, and evaluating as enemies and rivals. True friends are those who dare open our shortcomings and makes us aware that we grow into a more healthier. Although he was disguised as an enemy or competitor now, Will we receive our enemies and rivals as part of a healthy self growth, not to revenge, but rather thank those who hurt .....

Pygmalion was a talented young man sculpturing. He really skilled in sculpting. Really nice hand carved masterpiece. But not a skill that makes him known and loved friends and neighbors. Pygmalion known as someone who likes to think positive. He looked everything from a good angle.

* If the muddy field in the middle of the city, the people grumbled. But Pygmalion said, "Fortunately, the other field sebecek not this."

* When there is a buyer insists on offering sculpture bargain, folks Pygmalion whispered, "Stingy right person."

* But Pygmalion said, "Maybe he needs to spend money other matters that matter ".

* When kids stealing apples dikebunnya, Pygmalion was not swearing. He even feel pity, "Poor, children's lack of education and enough food in the house. "

That pattern of view Pygmalion. He did not see a situation in terms of bad, but rather in terms of both. She never thought bad about others on the contrary, he tries to imagine nice things behind bad deeds of others.

One day Pygmalion carved a wooden statue of a woman very smooth. The statue was a human-sized. When it was completed, sculpture that looks like a human right. The face of the statue was smiling sweetly charming, attractive beautiful body.

Comrades Pygmalion said, "Ah, how good-good statue, it's just a statue, not your wife. "

But Pygmalion treat human statue as well. Many times the statue staring and stroked.

The gods of Mount Olympus are noticed and appreciated gesture Pygmalion, and then they decided to give grace to Pygmalion, ie convert it into human statue right. Thus, Pygmalion life happy with his wife, who allegedly was the most beautiful woman in the whole country of Greece.

Pygmalion name is remembered to this day for a portrait of the impact of thinking patterns positive. If we think positively about a situation or someone, often the result actually be positive.

For example,

* If we are being nice to someone, then the rose will be friendly towards us.

* If we treat our children as a smart kid, he finally actually be smart.

* If we are confident that our efforts will succeed, immense possibilities efforts can be a partial success.

The impact of positive thinking patterns called Pygmalion effect.

Our minds are indeed fulfilling prophecy often has the effect or prophecy fulfilled, both positive and negative. If we consider our neighbors bitchy so we did not want to hang out with him, so finally he really be bitchy.

* If we suspect and assume our children are not honest, he eventually really being dishonest.

* If we were desperate and felt unable to start a business, immense possibilities we really would fail.

Pygmalion mindset is to think, guess and hope is just that good about a situation or person. Imagine how big the impact when we are such a positive mindset. We will not be prejudiced bad about others. We do not gossip about the bad rumors about others. We guess no evil about others. If we think badly about others, there are the ingredients for suspect bad things. If a friend gives to us, obviously it is a good deed. But if we think bad, we would be suspicious, "Maybe he was trying to persuade," or we grumbled, "Ah, the prize was just the cheap stuff." A loss of the mindset as it is easy sendiri.Kita us suspicious. We become not happy.

Conversely, if we think positively, we will enjoy the gift with joy and gratitude, "He was so generous. Though he was busy, he remember to give to us. " Indeed vivid color depends on the color glasses we wear.

* If we use gray glasses, everything will look gray. Life becomes gray and dreary. But if we wear the glasses

light, everything will seem brighter. Glass eyes are prejudiced or hate will make our lives full of suspicion and resentment. But the glass eyes that will make our lives peaceful peace.

Life would be better if we looked at in terms of the good. Think well of themselves. Thinking well of others. Think good about the situation. Think well of God.

Digest:

Impact thought it would be good as we feel. Family gets warm. Comrade become trustworthy. Neighbors became familiar. Work to be fun. World becomes friendly. Life becomes beautiful. Like Pygmalion, so. Mind is the forerunner of all things, the mind is the leader, the mind is forming. If one speaks or acts with an evil thought, the pain will follow him like a wagon wheel follows the ox that pulls footsteps. 

Mind is the forerunner of all things, the mind is the leader, the mind is forming. If one speaks or acts with a pure mind, then happiness will follow her like a shadow that never leaves the object.

you believe him, admire him even willing to do anything for her. Nothing wrong with that, but did you know that all women lie in certain situations, and one of them might be your partner.

Sometimes she lied to protect her feelings or feelings of their partner. His motives are unpredictable, but whatever the case, some lies are more common in certain cases. Learn what the lie is, its features and how to overcome them.

Here it is, five common falsehoods commonly done by women on their partners, as reported by AskMen, Tuesday (21/7/2009).

1. 'I'm Not Angry'

If she said it, it was clear that he was angry. Do not think you can handle it with ease. This lie is the type most often used in a relationship. The woman said this in an attempt to defend themselves. For example, if a guy forgot his girlfriend's birthday and apologized afterwards, she usually says 'I'm not angry'.

With talk like that, she really wanted him to read her mind, and learned that the words 'I am not angry' actually means 'I'm throwing a laser gun is not visible now'.

The most appropriate actions to overcome this lie is to call, listen to his true feelings and discuss what makes him angry.

2. 'I Do not Mind You Going With Your Friends Friends'

Do not like it if your girlfriend said so. Wise words indeed very pleasant to hear, but it was all she would mind if their partner was away with her friends.

Full sentences spoken lies, too many women to make them feel pity or sad. Women are very concerned if their partner hanging out with male friends because they can do all sorts, including the affair.

Women do not want to be secondary, it is also possible to say. Should discuss and explain what you used to do, and your friends at the gathering. Women just need to be understanding, that's all.

3. 'I'm Not Ready Current Courtship'

Women who say that actually stores the sentence continued in his heart, like 'I just do not want to hurt again after a break up some time ago'.

Or if he refuses with the phrase 'I am too busy with his career to live a relationship', he really just wanted to know how much your determination to get it. It all depends on your choice if it is so, try it or leave it.

4. 'I would not Mind Paying This time, Anyway You Always Pay Previous'

If she had said so, believe me that was a lie. Although not all women do lie, but most of them still expect everything to be paid for a man, especially if the call-out or eat it came from him. Men should offer payment earlier than women.

Overcome this problem, we encourage you to prepare a plan, including costs incurred to go on a date. You could just be fair and pay mambayar mendsikusikan matter with a female partner, but for the early stages of dating should not take the risk.

5. 'That was Very Good'

This lie is a lie sexual category. When a woman has been committed by a man, he will focus, trust and feel very comfortable with them. Therefore, they are also often tell him what you want to hear the man.

As in sex, she would say something that he can make the man happy and proud, like 'Honey, you're so great just now'.

When the time comes to make love, it would be safer if you discuss things with your partner. Do not let it mmbohongi himself or you.

If you already know the lies women, quickly react wisely and fairly as possible. Once a woman knows that you can not be fooled, it will be more honest and forthright again later.

THOSE who have climbed Mount Fuji worth mentioning the wise. However, they are worth the climb for the second time is called a fool. (Secret Japanese Proverb).

Fuji with elevations of 3776 meters is a symbol for the people of Sakura. The sacred mountain of the Japanese that means "immortality" This is a symbol of encouragement for Japanese people to continue to think creatively, especially when the state increasingly impossible.